BULLYING
IN THE MIDDLE SCHOOL Most Educators agree that attempts to
bully reach their worst in the Middle School / Junior High School
years.
The State of New Jersey School Bully Guideline has the potential to be used in a Legal sense against Districts who routinely fail to actually protect students, and just running an anti-bullying assembly once a year doesn't meet the standard. Those assemblies only impress the kids who wouldn't bully to begin with. We have found that it is standard
procedure for the School Administration to deny that bullying of any
sort is a systemic problem at their school, no matter what the reality
is. That denial is part of what they understand their job description to
be. When
specific instances of bullying are brought to their attention, they
address the culprit, most often in an ineffective way, but imagine the instance was isolated. The article
link below from the American Psychological Association carries the
headline: If you feel your child is being bullied
your first step is to get the facts. Sit down with your child and
impress upon them that you need the facts, not just their feelings.
There are occasions when the first time a child relates an incident of
harassment, they are wound up and may exaggerate for effect, to get you
to take action. You don't want to approach the school with half-truths,
you'll just be seen as "crying wolf" and disregarded. The last thing our
school administrators need are parents ranting without cause. When you
do have the facts, contact the teacher, then if needed, the Principal. Keep a
dated record of your contacts with them, you may need it later if you
have to go to the Superintendent or School Board or Attorney. Here's the
school contact info: October 2009 Update, Personal note from the Editors: Our horrific experience at Eisenhower was during the school terms of Sept 2006 thru June 2008. During those years a mostly befuddled Guidance Dept and Administrators were largely ineffective at stopping repeated horrendous bullying that had been reported to them. (Some of that selfish, inept group left, transferred or retired the next year). In mid-2008 a new Principal came to Eisenhower, some new teachers in the fall, a new emphasis on prevention of bullying, and thankfully, the departure of some staff who had little interest in addressing this critical issue. We have no doubt that this is a tacit admission that our concerns, and the concerns of many others were valid, in spite of the public bald-face lies that stated that all was fine at this school. Though we never expect to hear that admission, we do recognize the recent partial progress. |
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